13 tips to overcome loneliness in your marriage and make your bond stronger

Getting married can be a beautiful feeling, but feelings may change overtime. Know how to overcome loneliness in your marriage.
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Overcome loneliness in marriage for a healthy relationship. Image courtesy: Adobe Stock
Purvi Kalra Published: 23 Nov 2023, 16:15 pm IST
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Marriage is a journey filled with its share of joys and challenges. However, it can sometimes take unexpected turns, leading to feelings of loneliness. No matter how hard you try, your relationship can hit a rough patch and despite the happy parts of togetherness, there can be times or phases you can end up feeling lonely. That feeling is personal and its depth varies in every relationship. No matter where your relationship stands, it won’t hurt to know how to overcome loneliness in marriage.

Health Shots got in touch with Jaisleen Kaur, Image Consultant, Soft Skills Trainer and Life Coach, Dehradun, to understand ways to tide over the dark phases in a relationship and come out stronger together.

How to overcome loneliness in marriage?

You can always move on from the heavy feelings of loneliness in your marriage and move on towards reviving your love and fostering a deep, meaningful bond with your partner. Adapting these strategies to suit the specific dynamics of your marriage, coupled with regular reflection, open communication, and a commitment to growth, forms the foundation for a lasting and fulfilling connection.

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Life changes after marriage and despite the togetherness in life, you can end up feeling lonely in your marriage. Embrace it, and learn ways to mend your marriage together! Image courtesy: Adobe Stock

1. Understanding loneliness in marriage

Do you wonder, “How do I stop feeling alone in my marriage?” Well, first understand why it happens. Loneliness within marriage often stems from emotional disconnection rather than physical separation. This emotional gap may result from communication breakdowns, unmet needs, or a lack of shared interests. Recognizing this emotional facet is the first step toward building a more connected and fulfilling relationship.

Also read: Why does the spark fade away in your relationship?

2. Communication is key

“Effective communication is essential in building a happy marriage. Initiate open and honest conversations, ensuring both partners feel heard and understood. The art of active listening, eye contact, and paraphrasing thoughts can deepen emotional intimacy and bridge the communication gap,” says the expert.

3. Quality time together

Investing quality time in shared activities and interests is essential for maintaining a strong connection. Identify common hobbies and engage in activities that bring joy to both partners. Consistent effort to spend meaningful time together strengthens the emotional bond.

4. Rediscovering intimacy

Intimacy goes beyond the physical; emotional closeness is equally crucial. “Share dreams, fears, and aspirations, fostering vulnerability that deepens the emotional intimacy and alleviates feelings of loneliness,” suggests Jaisleen Kaur.

5. Addressing unmet needs

Loneliness may arise when emotional needs go unmet. Reflect on your needs and communicate them to your partner, encouraging them to do the same.

Understanding and addressing these needs can nurture a more supportive and satisfying relationship.

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6. Seeking professional help

If feelings of loneliness persist, seeking professional assistance from a relationship counsellor or psychologist can provide insights, facilitate communication, and offer tools to navigate challenges effectively.

7. Cultivating individual growth

Encouraging personal development and pursuing individual interests contribute to the overall health of a marriage. Fulfilment and self-awareness positively impact the dynamics of the relationship, preventing feelings of stagnation or isolation.

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8. Practice active listening

“Develop the skill of active listening to ensure genuine understanding, creating an environment where both partners feel heard and valued,” says our expert.

9. Express gratitude

Regularly express appreciation for your partner’s efforts, fostering a positive atmosphere and strengthening the emotional connection.

10. Establish rituals of connection

Create daily or weekly rituals exclusive to the two of you to reinforce the sense of togetherness. Focus on positive aspects, intentionally creating opportunities for laughter and joy.

12. Set relationship goals

“Work in unison to set short-term and long-term goals that creates a sense of unity and purpose in the marriage,” says the expert.

Aim to build higher morals and values in your marriage that will deepen your bond with your partner.

13. Embrace change together

You change as a human every few years, and it’s normal to accept new parts about yourself and your partner. Acknowledge that individuals and relationships evolve; embrace change and growth as a couple.

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After testing her skill-set in the field of management and marketing, Purvi Kalra is exploring the world of turning thoughts to words. Her penchant for writing stems for being an avid reader all her life. Her work drives her to be better every day. ...Read More

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