Every 40 seconds someone takes their life; that’s almost 800,000 people a year around the world. India reports 10.4 suicides per 100,000 people in a year. The truth, however, is that suicide prevention is a reality!
Most people do not want to die, they are just unable to deal with the pain.
Talking openly about suicide can save a life. Not talking about it makes it worse. Your action of reaching out to a friend, acquaintance, neighbour, co-worker can restore hope and save a life. Take action; reach out and rekindle hope. Do your bit for suicide prevention. The points below tell you how!
Recognise the signs that a person is suicidal:
Threatening to kill themselves
A person expresses feeling trapped; that there is no way out
Talking, writing, posting about death, dying or suicide
Planning ways of killing self; research, accessing pills, pesticides, weapons or other means
Hopelessness; nothing to look forward to
Withdrawing from friends, family, or society
Increased use of alcohol or drugs
Anxiety, agitation, rage or continued feeling of anger
Loss of purpose or meaning in life – could be sudden change in life
People, at a greater risk for suicide, include:
Those who may have a mental illness
People with poor physical health and disabilities
Those who have attempted suicide or harmed themselves in the past
Those facing difficult life circumstances particularly with relationships or their health
People who have experienced physical or sexual abuse as a child
People who have recently experienced a suicide by someone else
Be patient and calm while the person is talking about their feelings
Listen to the person without expressing judgment, accepting what they are saying without agreeing or disagreeing with their behavior or point of view
Ask open-ended questions (i.e. questions that cannot be simply answered with ‘yes’ or ‘no’) to find out more about the suicidal thoughts and feelings and the problems behind these
Ensure that you express empathy for how the person is feeling
What NOT to do
Argue or debate with the person about their thoughts of suicide
Being judgmental about suicide
Use guilt or threats to prevent suicide
Communicate a lack of interest or negative attitude through your body language.
‘Daring them to ‘just do it’
Attempt to give the person a diagnosis of a mental illness
TasneemRaja is a Mental Health Expert. She has a Master's degree in clinical psychology, and an M.Phil. She has advanced training in public health with a special focus on Mental Health. ...Read More