Is it vital to tell your partner everything about your past? Find out now

Published on: 27 March 2022, 17:00 pm IST

Being honest to your partner lays the foundation for a healthy bond, but should you divulge everything about your pas relationships?

Devina Kaur
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You must open up about what you are comfortable with. Image courtesy: Shutterstock

“What you don’t know can’t damage you,” goes the saying. But what if the individual is unaware because they were never informed? Unveiling your past is a liberating experience. You are taking charge of your life and making decisions about what you want to do with it. The past, the present and the future are all connected. We can only comprehend ourselves and make better judgments in the future if we understand our past. So, should we talk about our past relationships with our partners?

Our history is significant, but it is not the only factor that shapes who we are.

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Don’t anticipate a confrontation if you want to share about your past. Image courtesy: Shutterstock

It is critical to tell your partner everything about your background, so that they can gain a better understanding of you and what they’re getting themselves into. However, we must realise that not everyone will be able to process all of the information we provide. And as a result, some individuals may distance themselves from us. Others, on the other hand, may misuse this information when they are stressed.

Both parties must be prepared to accept one another’s past and without judgment or criticism for a healthy relationship.

How to talk about your past relationships with your partner

1. Acceptance and understanding

It’s challenging to tell your partner about your past. It can be a difficult emotional journey that leads to acceptance and release. When you are able to tell your partner everything, they will be able to assist you in the healing and moving on process.

Empowerment is a personal spiritual journey that aids in the acceptance and release of one’s prior experiences. It also assists individuals in finding serenity in their current lives by providing them with knowledge of the divine sexy brilliance in themselves. It is critical that you are honest with yourself and that you feel at ease with the person with whom you will live your life.

Acceptance and release of knowledge are essential for a healthy partnership, because it will empower you both in this new stage of life. It’s critical that we accept our past as it emerges, so that we can be free of any guilt or shame we may be experiencing.

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Emotional health is important in relationships. Image courtesy: Shutterstock

2. Unveil and let go

It’s not just about sex and intimacy in divine connections. It’s also about trust and confidence. When you have this level of trust in your partner, it will be easier for you to open up to them. It’s not easy to untangle the past, but healing is vital if you want to move on to a healthier partnership. Letting go of your own trauma, perhaps with the help of professionals will enable you to let go of the past and embark on a new life filled with happiness and contentment. Releasing the past signals that you’re ready for a fresh start, so be ready for what’s to come because things can only get better from here!

So, should we talk about past relationships with our partner?

This question does not have a one-size-fits-all response. It all depends on the type of relationship you’re in and what you hope to get out of it. Some people believe that they should not keep anything from their partner, while others believe that telling them about important life events is sufficient. Accept what helps you feel at ease and be willing to let go of what no longer serves you.

Devina Kaur Devina Kaur

Devina Kaur is an inspirational speaker, radio host, and producer. She is also the author of the self-help book called "Too Fat Too Loud Too Ambitious".

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