Ladies, you need to make it clear to your man that women want sex as much as men! Most of us are familiar with the conventional version of sex where female pressure takes a back seat, which should not be the case. Our culture might not prioritise female pressure, but you can prioritise yourself by helping your man understand your requirements. If you are looking for ways to make your man understand, we have you covered! While a combination of foreplay and emotion goes a long ago, there are other things you need to keep in mind that you should make your man understand. In other words, your man should know how to make his lady reach the height of pleasure.
Dr Tanaya Narendra aka dr_cuterus recently shared some tips to make your girl happy. Check the video right here:
If you are looking for ways to help your man understand how he can make your girl reach climax, here are some tips that can help:
Hygiene is key! If physical intimacy is all you think about when it comes to sex, you need to enlighten yourself about basic hygiene practices. The first on the list of maintaining sex hygiene is nails. Dr Tanaya shares that men should cut and file their nails. “When you finger someone, you can hurt them and give them infections with sharp/dirty nails.”
The next on the hygiene list are your genitals. In general, your man should keep his private parts clean to avoid infections. It becomes even more important for guys to wash his private parts before having sex. “While genitals have a natural smell (that you don’t need to fix), you still want to keep them clean.”
Don’t underestimate the power of cunnilingus! “Oral sex is better when it’s enjoyed by both partners!” recommends Dr Cuterus. If your man knows his way around your lady parts, good! If not, help him figure out how he can navigate his way through it to give you the pleasure you deserve. Make him learn the tongue movements and more about your vagina so he can blow your mind in bed.
Foreplay involves all the activities you do before having sex. Sometimes, it is enough to reach orgasm without actually having sex. It is a great way to bring excitement to your sexual life. Did you know foreplay also has psychological and physical benefits? So, it’s time for your man to focus more on better foreplay than penetration to have better sex, says the expert.
Lubricants make you more comfortable and enjoy the act of sex way more. After all, you should not leave any area dry! Dr Cuterus shares, “Lube helps everyone by making sex pain-free – the wetter, the better.”
So, try these tips to stay excited and happy in your sexual relationship!
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