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Have you been crushing on someone for long, but couldn’t find the right moment to express your feelings? Make the most of Valentine’s Day by asking that special person, “Will you be my Valentine?” For those who are already in long term relationships, make this February 14 special by asking your partners to be your Valentines. But, don’t just get down on one knee, and pop the question. Yes, it is romantic but there are more ways to make the moment fun and interesting. You don’t have to buy expensive gifts to express how you feel. You can take help of something they love — music, food, and more.
Yes, Valentine’s Day can have quite a significant impact on your mental health. So before you get ready to ask, “Will you be my Valentine?” it’s important to know how you’ll be feeling after your partner says yes!
“The act of expressing appreciation, whether through cards, and messages, can trigger the release of oxytocin and serotonin – neurotransmitters associated with happiness,” says psychotherapist and life coach Dr Chandni Tugnait. During a 2022 study, published in the Journal of Scientific Exploration, participants who received gifts on Valentine’s Day reported lower levels of distress.
The holiday can promote mindful behaviour as people tend to take time to reflect on their relationships and emotional needs. “This self-reflection often leads to improved emotional awareness and better communication patterns,” says the expert.
The emphasis on love during this time of the month can motivate people to engage in activities like spending time with loved ones. For some, sharing food, and drinks on Valentine’s Day is like a vehicle of spending quality time with loved ones, as per research published in Advances In Consumer Research in 2012. “Such activities can boost mental wellness,” says the expert.
Here are some fun ways to ask someone, “Will you be my Valentine?”
Create a funny Bollywood meme or Instagram reel using a popular scene. Add a caption like, “Mujhse dosti karoge (Will you be my friend)? No? Then be my Valentine instead?” You can also edit dialogue from your favourite movie, and send it as a surprise DM.
Curate a playlist on a music app with song titles arranged to spell out, “Will you be my Valentine?” Share the playlist with that special person and add a message: “Press play for a surprise.” This way, you will let the music do the talking.
“If that person is a foodie, order his or her favourite snack or dish with a customised note inside the packaging,” suggests the expert. You can write something funny like, “This pizza is cheesy, but not as much as me asking, Will you be my Valentine?”
While some people like to eat, others enjoy cooking. If they love cooking, create a recipe card with “ingredients for love” where the final instruction reveals your Valentine request. Include playful ingredients like “2 cups of laughter” and “a pinch of adventure: instead of just asking, “Will you be my Valentine?”
Don’t use Instagram just to share photos and videos. Post a cryptic Insta poll saying: “Should I ask them to be my Valentine?” Yes, definitely! They better say yes! Once they vote ‘yes,’ send them a screenshot and follow up with: “Oops, looks like I have to! So… be my Valentine?”
Create a small jigsaw puzzle where the completed image forms your question, “Will you be my Valentine?” Make sure they don’t get their hands on the pieces in one go. “Hide the pieces throughout the day, letting them slowly piece together your intention,” suggests the expert.
If the person you love is a reader, find out which book they are reading. Then place custom bookmarks in their current read. Each bookmark should have a word of your question. Gradually, it will lead them to the final page with your complete request to be your Valentine on February 14.
Many people begin their day with a caffeinated drink. After all. there are benefits of drinking coffee. If they are a coffee lover, you may have to spend a little bit of money. Arrange for their morning coffee to be served in a custom temperature-revealing mug that shows your question when hot liquid is added.
Take a PollNowadays things are literally just a few clicks away. For this special day, arrange for a fun surprise delivery. It can be a book, a bag or plant with a tag that reads: “Books last forever, just like my feelings for you. Will you be my Valentine?”
Thanks to technology, you can use a free news generator. Take help of technology to create a fake breaking news banner saying: “Local person finds out they have the coolest Valentine ever!” Send it along with: “This could be you. Say yes!”
There are so many radio stations that take song requests. “Call up one of them, and dedicate a romantic song to that special person on the radio station,” suggests the expert. When it plays, send a message: “Tune in now, there is something special for you!” Once they listen to it, ask, “Will you be my Valentine?”
It is easy to get hands on a T-shirt with a photo of your favourite celebrity. You can also have custom messages on them. Wear a custom T-shirt that reads: “Looking for a Valentine… oh wait, I found one! It’s you.” Wear it and casually walk past them or send a selfie.
Even if you ask, “Will you be my Valentine?” in fun ways, you may get turned down. “Facing rejection on Valentine’s Day can hurt, but responding with dignity preserves both your self-respect and your existing relationship with that person,” says Dr Tugnait.
Stop feeling shy and ask the person you love, “Will you be my Valentine?” in style. Take help of technology or things they love to make the moment special.
Asking someone to be your Valentine is all about striking the right balance between thoughtful planning and natural timing. You can ask one or two weeks before Valentine's Day. This timing provides enough breathing room for both parties while maintaining the excitement of the approaching celebration.
When asking someone to be your Valentine via text, authenticity and personality matter more than fancy words. Start with a warm greeting that sets a positive tone then be direct yet thoughtful with your request. Consider opening with a light-hearted reference to a shared memory or inside joke before asking the question.
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